Being a gay man and asking for man to go out is something tricky that needs some special efforts. You need to know how to find a gay man among all and ask him for go out or for gay dating. There are few but essential steps that you must learn before initiating or approaching in front of any random guy. If you are gay that doesn’t mean that any guy you see is gay and you can approach him and ask him directly that – “Are you Gay? Would you like to go out with me?” This is something that is not accepted even if a guy you approach is already a gay. No one will openly ask these questions to any random guy unless there are some special signals or hint from other end.
There are no such hard and strict rules you need to follow before approaching any random guy to go out with you, however you still need to learn the skills to invite or attract any gay guy towards you and can easily agree to go with you. Here are few tips and tricks before asking any guy.
Waiting for his Response – you see a random guy in a party and attracted towards him and really want to go out with him. You cannot approach him directly and have to wait for some hint or signal. If that guy is also looking at you in every next minute take this as a signal or hint that he is also available to go out with you and interested in you. If this is the signal you got from the other end, approach him directly without wasting a single second of your life. But still don’t ask him directly, offer him a drink or ask either he is with someone else or alone in a party, or he would like to join him for evening or going out. If things go well and he is also interested in you than surely you will get the best response in your life.
Show your interest in him – If you find a guy that have some potential and attract you. Approach him and ask regular questions about him and his life style. Ask simple questions about the party or to whom with he is in the party, A girlfriend or alone? Ask him about his hobbies and share gentle smile in small interval. If you are still confused and didn’t came in conclusion that either he is gay or not, better idea to know about his status is – tell him that you this time you are going to annual LGBT event. Here reaction or reply will make you clear that he is gay or not. If he is gay and responding quite very well than the game is on and you have to play very sensibly. Gentle touches in shoulders in between your conversations make the things easy and comfortable.
Hence, here are the essential but effective tips to ask a random guy to go out with you.